“People don’t come with instruction manuals, you have to train yourself.” -Myself
I’ve learned through my life that you cannot make people what you want them to be. You have to let them live & be themselves. You have to figure what kind of person you are & learn more about yourself to know yourself. That’s how you figure out who people are. You don’t have to study psychology to figure this out. Besides, you can learn more about your friends who can tell you about life as they know themselves. You can’t just figure out who people are by yourself from your perception without getting to know them. You have to discover what they are like & if you can grow with them & what they want to be.